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I am the coach and mentor for the woman who is no longer willing to lower her standards in order to feel chosen. She knows there is more—more love, more alignment, more abundance—but she’s done chasing it through force, control, or performance. I work with the woman who is ready to be met in her power, not picked apart for it. The woman who knows she’s magnetic, but still feels unseen. The woman who leads, holds, and over-delivers… but is ready to receive.

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WHO I HELP

My work is for the woman who’s done shrinking to fit into spaces that weren’t built to honor her wholeness—and is now ready to create a life, business, and love story that match her standards, her sovereignty, and her soul.

I do accept male clients by application only.

Feminine (and Masculine) Embodiment

FEMININE: I help women step out of performance and into true receptivity—where pleasure, power, and provision meet. You’ll stop managing the connection with the masculine, lowering your standards to feel chosen, and start magnetizing what reflects your worth. In my world I do not push you to perform or to "be more." I actually invite you into the collapse and hold you in that space with compassion and acceptance. It is only through the surrender of the false identities that you have been carrying that you can truly free your sacred power. And once you have, your frequency of love and embodiment will ruin him for anything less. Instead of compromising your standards to meet the masculine, he will begin to seek out your frequency. This is the holy power of the embodied feminine.

MASCULINE: I help men step out of performance and into true embodied leadership and devotion. Within my coaching container I make space for the masculine to experience true feminine embodiment by bearing witness to their truth, fears, and vulnerability with acceptance and compassion. I allow the masculine to fully surrender into my feminine leadership and guide them into deeper emotional awareness and capacity so they can learn how to become more emotionally present, lead a connection with an embodied woman with confidence, and learn how to lead repair in his romantic connections.

NOTE: I only work with men who have passed the application process. If you are a masculine and would like to inquire about working with me you can click here to apply.

Nervous System & Emotional Recalibration

I support women in recalibrating their nervous system and emotional patterns so they can finally feel safe receiving the very things they’ve been calling in—love, money, support, and visibility. Most women think they have a mindset problem or a strategy issue when really, it’s their body that doesn’t yet feel safe being seen, adored, praised, or provided for. This work goes beyond breathwork and regulation techniques. Through my signature process, I help you identify and dissolve the subconscious identity patterns, relational imprints, and emotional habits that are keeping you stuck in a loop of self-protection and over-performance. We don't just soothe the nervous system—we rewire the way you relate to safety, visibility, and intimacy. This is a full-body recalibration into worthiness, allowing, and leadership that doesn’t require "over-efforting" or performance. As a woman who has personally walked through emotional shutdown, attachment rewiring, identity realignment, and complete energetic restructuring, I don’t just teach this—I live it. I’ve built my body into a sanctuary where my feminine gets to receive deeply and be powerfully held. I help my clients do the same.

Energetic Standards & Sacred Boundaries

If you've ever felt like you had to over-explain, over-perform, or over-give to be loved or chosen, this is the work that changes everything. I specialize in helping women set and hold energetic standards—not from wounded hyper-independence, but from embodied clarity and deep devotion to self. This isn’t about building walls. It’s about becoming so rooted in your self-worth that you no longer bend for breadcrumbs, tolerate emotional ambiguity, or shape-shift to stay connected. Together, we untangle the parts of you that still believe love, safety, or validation must be earned. We identify the patterns, programs, and emotional distortions that have made inconsistency or "over-efforting" feel familiar—and we replace them with sacred boundaries and sovereign standards that actually match the woman you are becoming. I don’t just help you communicate boundaries—I help you embody them. Because when your standard becomes a frequency—not a defense—you no longer need to push, prove, or punish. You simply hold, and life rises to meet you. This is the work I’ve done to become the kind of woman who is pursued, not rescued—chosen, not tolerated. I will help you do the same.

MEET THE activation alchemist

I'm Nancy

The Activation Alchemist and I am here to help you reconnect with your higher consciousness so that you can make alignment your default setting and finally create that yummy reality your soul actually came here to experience.

Bachelors Degree in Psychology and attended Graduate School for Rehabilitation Counseling

Published Author of the Unfulfilled Promises series

Psychic and divine channel

Founder and Developer of the Untangled Method

As Featured in..

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Thrive global

Purpose Fairy

She Owns It

A message from nancy cooper

When I first stepped into the "coaching" industry I saw some incongruencies that I made it my mission to address. I was seeing the messaging “I help women step into their power” everywhere I turned, when it cam to transformational coaching and I honestly found it to be one of the most disempowering things one could say. Because here’s what I’ve learned… You can’t "step into" your power. Because your power is not something you find. It’s something you remember. It’s not about claiming a new identity—it’s about unraveling the one you were taught to wear. The polished mask. The high-achieving hustle. The bold performance meant to hide the ache beneath it all. And I know this because I tried it. I tried to become “more.” More magnetic. More embodied. More of what I thought feminine power should look like. But the truth is, our real power doesn’t come through performance. It doesn’t rise through force. It reveals itself through surrender.

The moment everything shifted for me was the moment I allowed myself to collapse. Not in burnout. But in truth. I stopped chasing who I thought I was supposed to be. And started becoming more of who I already was. See, we live in a world that tells women to be louder, more activated, more “on" and this messaging is wrapped up and sold to us as "this is what a powerful woman looks like." Meanwhile, her soul is slowly dying inside. Because it’s all still a performance. It's not real. It’s still trying to prove, still trying to be chosen, still rooted in survival. And that? It never lasts. Because if your nervous system has never felt safe being fully received… Then even your boldest “power” is just another mask.

In this space, we don’t play "dress-up" in empowerment. We don't pretend that self-abandonment for the sake of presentation is embodiment. We meet the real you—the one who exists beneath the armor. The you who’s still there when it all falls away. Because until you’ve been held in your unraveling… Until you’ve collapsed without being cast aside… Until you’ve been seen, loved, and claimed in the absence of performance… You haven’t met your power yet. This is what I hold space for. Not a scavenger hunt for worthiness. Not a performative "spiritual awakening." But a holy, cellular remembering rooted in activation. Because your power was never missing. It was just buried beneath everything you were taught to be. And you don’t need to become someone else to reclaim it. You just need the safety to become you.

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Some FUN facts about ME

I am a light language channel and sing light language codes

For as long as I can remember I have been able to sing "light language" codes, though I only learned what that ability was after turning 30 years old. I now use light language in healing, energy clearing, and DNA and cellular memory activation.

I have had past life memories since I was a child

Ever since the age of 7 I have had memories of a man that I deeply missed but had never met in this lifetime. I never told anyone about these memories until I wrote my first book, Witch's Wound, that was inspired by these memories, and I started receiving Instagram messages from strangers telling me "I have memories like this too! And I have never told anyone...." It was in that moment that I realized, there were a lot of women struggling with past life trauma and no support available for them. This is where my coaching business began.

I created and developed a signature transformational coaching modality known as the Untangled Method

I never set out to create a healing method—I was simply trying to make sense of my own patterns, struggles, and deep intuitive knowing.

Since childhood, I carried memories that didn’t belong to this lifetime, along with feelings of abandonment, unworthiness, and disconnection that shaped my relationships, my self-worth, and my ability to receive. No matter how much mindset work I did, I kept looping in the same cycles.

It wasn’t until I uncovered the hidden distortions running the show beneath the surface that everything changed. The limiting beliefs weren’t just in my mind—they were encoded in my subconscious. The blocks weren’t random—they were patterns passed down through lifetimes, inherited through lineage, and reinforced by societal programming. The missing piece wasn’t more healing—it was untangling the distortions that kept me stuck in a reality I no longer wanted.

That’s when the Untangled Method was born.

What started as a personal breakthrough became a powerful, systematic approach to clearing subconscious blocks, reprogramming outdated conditioning, and stepping into full energetic sovereignty. This isn’t traditional mindset or healing work. This is deep energetic liberation, subconscious rewiring at the core level, and stepping into the reality where nothing holds power over you ever again.

The Untangled Method isn’t about “fixing” anything—it’s about returning to the truth of who you are before the distortions, the limitations, and the subconscious programming took hold. This is the work that creates lasting transformation, frees you to step fully into your power, and designed to help you get results in a way that’s unlike anything else you've tried.

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